People think “shy” means small or scared…

People think “shy” means small. But every time someone labeled me shy/quiet/reserved, what they didn’t understand was that I was studying the room.

I was watching the dynamics, the power, the tone. I was figuring out who was safe, who talked over people, who listened, who judged, who really saw.

And the funny part – tell me if this is true for you!!!

Once you DO decide a space is safe (once you feel the warmth, the openness, the lack of ego) you become the most vibrant version of yourself.

Loud, funny, chaotic, brilliant, warm. The kind of person who fills the room.

You’re simply making sure the room deserves the real you before you hand her over.

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