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Save this for the days everything feels heavier than it should ❤️

Some struggles are just life being life…. annoying, inconvenient, unfair.

But others… you can feel the difference!!

They have weight, yes, but they also have direction.

There are challenges that push you out of rooms you were never meant to shrink yourself inside.

There are disappointments that quietly return your confidence.

There are endings that look like rejection but are actually release.

And yes, it feels like loss when you’re inside it. I’m totally not gonna gloss over that.

But look closer at the pattern:

How many times have you “lost” something only to realize later it was the thing blocking your next level?

How many times did you think you were being stripped bare… when you were actually healing deeply?

If you’re in one of those seasons, here’s the lens that’s helped me over and over:

Some things fall apart because you finally stopped holding them together.

Some doors close because you kept trying to make yourself smaller to fit through them.

Some failures reroute you because the cost of “success” on that path would have been too high.

And some hard moments show you who you are when the old strategies no longer work.

It doesn’t mean every challenge is sacred or meaningful – life is too random for that.
But some… you feel it.

They strip away the noise, the pretending, the forcing.
They return you to a clearer version of yourself.

If something is falling away right now, don’t assume punishment.

Consider the possibility of precision.

#growth #mindset #selfdevelopment #motivation #innerwork